vulkan : incremental shader builds (#16341)

vulkan : incremental shader builds (#16341)

* vulkan (DRAFT): split shader generation by GLSL source file, to improve incremental build times

* support dep-files so shaders are recompiled if their included files change

* rename shader files which are used as "headers" to use .glsl extension
* move glslc extension detection shaders to separate folders
* the above is to prevent them from getting glob'd with the actual compute shaders that need to be compiled

* vulkan : only write embedded shader .hpp/.cpp when they change

* avoid recompiling ggml-vulkan.cpp when editing shaders
* pass single --source argument instead of --input-dir & --filter to shader gen
* check for source file match earlier

* fix hang in vulkan-shaders-gen when there are compilation errors

* early out did not decrement compile_count

* clean up

* fix glslc integer dot product test

* unconditionally write the embedded shader cpp output

* replace output filepath in generated dep-files to match output in CMakeLists

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Co-authored-by: Jeff Bolz <redacted>