metal : simplify kernel arguments using a struct (ggml/3229) (llama/12194)

metal : simplify kernel arguments using a struct (ggml/3229) (llama/12194)

* metal : refactor im2col parameters into a struct

* metal: Change im2col offset types from int32_t to uint64_t to support larger memory offsets

* metal : refactor sum_rows parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor soft_max parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor diag_mask_inf parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor ssm_conv parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor ssm_scan parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor get_rows parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor group_norm parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor conv_transpose_1d parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor upscale parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor pad parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor pad_reflect_1d parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor arange parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor timestep_embedding parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor argsort parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor leaky_relu parameters into a struct

* metal : refactor pool_2d parameters into a struct

* metal : fix trailing whitespace

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Co-authored-by: alexju <redacted>