vulkan: Implement grouped query attention in the coopmat2 FA shader (#12559)

vulkan: Implement grouped query attention in the coopmat2 FA shader (#12559)

When adjacent batches of Q share the same batches of K/V, batch them into
the same workgroup. For example, when:

dst(128,32,1,1) = FA(q(128,1,32,1), k(128,16640,8,1), v(128,16640,8,1))

previously we would run 32 workgroups computing 1 result each, now we will
run 8 workgroups computing 4 results each.

This doesn't directly translate to better performance (at least when you have
>=32 SMs), but in a subsequent change I'll enable split_k which will scale much
better with 4x fewer workgroups.