cmake : enable curl by default (#12761)

cmake : enable curl by default (#12761)

* cmake : enable curl by default

* no curl if no examples

* fix build

* fix build-linux-cross

* add windows-setup-curl

* fix

* shell

* fix path

* fix windows-latest-cmake*

* run: include_directories

* LLAMA_RUN_EXTRA_LIBS

* sycl: no llama_curl

* no test-arg-parser on windows

* clarification

* try riscv64 / arm64

* windows: include libcurl inside release binary

* add msg

* fix mac / ios / android build

* will this fix xcode?

* try clearing the cache

* add bunch of licenses

* revert clear cache

* fix xcode

* fix xcode (2)

* fix typo