vulkan: fix top_k bug when there are ties in the input (#17659)

vulkan: fix top_k bug when there are ties in the input (#17659)

* vulkan: Reduce temporary memory usage for TOP_K

- Compute row size for the temp buffer based on the output of the first pass.
- Update shader addressing math to use the output row size
- Pass the output row size as "ncols_output", what used to be "ncols_output" is now "k"

For the common case of K=40 and src0=(200000,1,1,1), this reduces the temporary buffer
from about 3.2MB to 500KB.

* vulkan: fix top_k bug when there are ties in the input

I noticed by inspection a bug in the vulkan top_k shader where if the least
value in the top_k appears multiple times we could end up writing those extra
copies out rather than some larger values (if the larger values are on higher
numbered threads).

I rewrote the test verification to handle this case, where the final index set
is not necessarily the same.

* Update tests/test-backend-ops.cpp

Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <redacted>
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Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <redacted>