metal : add CONV_2D_DW (depthwise convolution) support (#21565)

metal : add CONV_2D_DW (depthwise convolution) support (#21565)

* metal : add CONV_2D_DW (depthwise 2D convolution) support

* test : add perf cases for CONV_2D_DW

* metal : use 3D dispatch for CONV_2D_DW kernel

* metal : add channel-tiled CONV_2D_DW kernel for non-contiguous layouts

* metal : simplify CONV_2D_DW dispatch and trim comments

* metal : merge duplicate CONV_2D_DW pipeline getters

* tests : add F16 CONV2D_DW tests

* cpu : fix F16 kernel support for CONV_2D_DW

* tests : remove commented-out CONV_2D_DW test block

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Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <redacted>