vendor: sync subprocess.h and drop local patches (#26808)

vendor: sync subprocess.h and drop local patches (#26808)

Upstream merged the Windows argument quoting fix, the NetBSD build
fix and the chdir fallback for glibc older than 2.29, so pin the
vendored copy to a commit that carries all three and remove the
patch files along with the apply step in the sync script.

The new pin also brings the exec error report on glibc older than
2.24 and the ENOSYS mapping to a dedicated error code. Both are
additive and no caller inspects those values.