ggml : SOTA 2-bit quants (add IQ2_XS) (#4856)

ggml : SOTA 2-bit quants (add IQ2_XS) (#4856)

* iq2_xs: basics

* iq2_xs: this should have been in the basics

* iq2_xs: CUDA and scalar CPU works

* iq2_xs: WIP Metal

* iq2_xs: Metal now works

* iq2_xs: working, but dog slow, ARM_NEON dot product

* iq2_xs: better ARM_NEON dot product

We are now at 19.5 t/s for TG-128 and 61 t/s for PP-512 when
running on the CPU.

* iq2_xs: AVX2 dot product - 19.5 t/s

* iq2_xs: faster AVX2 dit product

21.4 t/s for TG-128, 59.2 t/s for PP-512.
The latter is 2x compared to the previous version.

* iq2_xs: had forgotten to delete iq2-data.h

* Add llama enum for IQ2_XS

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Co-authored-by: Iwan Kawrakow <redacted>