cmake : add option to build and link BoringSSL (#17205)

cmake : add option to build and link BoringSSL (#17205)

* cmake: add option to build and link BoringSSL

Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>
* cmake : fix typo

Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>
* cmake : disable boringssl test and asm by default

Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>
* cmake : skip bssl

Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>
* cmake : disable fips

Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>
* cmake : fix cmake --install

Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>
* ci : use boringssl for windows and mac

Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>
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Signed-off-by: Adrien Gallouët <redacted>