ci : move most slim jobs to self-hosted runners (#23619)

ci : move most slim jobs to self-hosted runners (#23619)

* ci : remove tag from build-self-hosted.yml

* ci : slim -> self-hosted

* ci : prevent heavy CPU jobs from running on fast runners

* ci : prevent cmake pkg to run on dedicated fast runners

* ci : try to bump 3.11 -> 3.13

* ci : move lint back to 3.11

* ci : back to 3.11

* ci : add comment about UI jobs

* ci : move python requirements check to CPU runners

this job is a bit slow for a dedicated "fast" runner

* ci : add self-hosted ui workflow

* ci : fix UI naming

* tmp to check if arm64 fast is compatible with all jobs

* revert last commit