Windows fixes (#890)

Windows fixes (#890)

Mostly for msys2 and mingw64 builds, which are different from each other
and different from standard Visual Studio builds.  Isn't Windows fun?

- Define _GNU_SOURCE in more files (it's already used in ggml.c for
  Linux's sake).

- Don't use PrefetchVirtualMemory if not building for Windows 8 or later
  (mingw64 doesn't by default).  But warn the user about this situation
  since it's probably not intended.

- Check for NOMINMAX already being defined, which it is on mingw64.

- Actually use the `increment` variable (bug in my `pizza` PR).

- Suppress unused variable warnings in the fake pthread_create and
  pthread_join implementations for Windows.

- (not Windows-related) Remove mention of `asprintf` from comment;
  `asprintf` is no longer used.

Fixes #871.