llava : add MobileVLM support (#5132)

llava : add MobileVLM support (#5132)

* New Feature:
    1. Sum_Rows:
        fix cuda kernel overflow
        fix block shape error when nrows too big
    2. Im2Col:
        Support Batch in cuda
        Support f32 to f32 both in cpu && cuda
    3. DepthWiseConv:
        Support by Im2Col && MulMat
    4. Pool_2d:
        Supoort avg pooling in cuda
    5. HardSigmoid:
        Imp in cuda
    6. HardSwish:
        Imp in cuda

* fix tabs instead of spaces

* code clean

* CUDA POOL2D

* ADD POOL2D test case in test-backend-ops.cpp

* code clean

* fix pool2d_kernel

nits

* fix bug in pool2d kernel

* fix avg pooling, count_include_pad

nits

* test-backend-ops : add more pool_2d tests

* cuda : fix warnings and formatting

* ggml : check types in release builds too in pool_2d

* test-backend-ops : remove f16 pool_2d tests

* cuda : more style fixes

* Add assert in ggml_cuda_op_pool2d

* pool2d float padding fallback

* test-backend-ops : add dst_type to im2col

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Co-authored-by: slaren <redacted>