IQ4_XS: a 4.25 bpw quantization (#5747)

IQ4_XS: a 4.25 bpw quantization (#5747)

* Try IQ4_NL with blocks of 64 - does not look good

* iq4_xs: go to super-blocks of 256 and 6-bit scales for blocks of 32

* iq4_xs: CUDA works - 133.2 t/s

* iq4_xs: AVX2 dot product

* iq4_xs: ARM_NEON dot product

* iq4_nl: Metal implementation

As usual, Metal / Apple Silicon don't like my quants.

* iq3_xs: minor fix

* iq4_xs: shrink by using IQ3_S for attn_k and attn_q

* iq4_xs: revert using IQ3_S for attn_k and attn_v

PPL vs size is good, but CPU performance suffers: on M2 Max
TG-128 drops to 21.7 t/s from 28.8, and on a Ryzen-7950X
to 14.5 t/s from 15.8 t/s. On CUDA we have 135 t/s when
using IQ3_S vs 133 t/s with pure IQ4_XS.

* Fix CI

* iq4_xs: Added forgotten check for 256 divisibility

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Co-authored-by: Iwan Kawrakow <redacted>