[SYCL] Optimize mul_mat for Q4_0 on Intel GPU (#12035)

[SYCL] Optimize mul_mat for Q4_0 on Intel GPU (#12035)

* opt performance by reorder for Intel GPU

* detect hw type and save opt feature, and print opt feature

* correct name

* support optimize graph once when compute graph, record the opt status in tensor->extra, make CI passed

* add env variable GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT for debug

* use syclex::architecture replace the custom hw define, update the guide for GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT

* add performance data

* mv getrows functions to separeted files

* fix global variables

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Co-authored-by: arthw <redacted>