metal: SSM kernel improvements (#17876)

metal: SSM kernel improvements (#17876)

* feat: Add a batched version of ssm_conv

This was done using Claude Code. It found a number of optimizations around
how the threads were organized, resulting in a huge performance boost!

Branch: Mamba2SSD

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* feat: Optimized SSM_SCAN kernel for metal

This used Claude Code and resulted in a modest performance improvement
while maintaining correctness.

Branch: Mamba2SSD

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* test: Add test-backend-ops perf tests for SSM_CONV

Branch: SSMKernelImprovements

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* test: Real representitive tests for SSM_CONV

Branch: SSMKernelImprovements

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* refactor: Use function constant for ssm_conv batch size

Branch: SSMKernelImprovements

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* test: backend op tests for ssm_scan from granite4 1b-h

Branch: SSMKernelImprovements

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* style: remove commented out templates

Branch: SSMKernelImprovements

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* feat: float4 version of ssm_conv_batched

Branch: SSMKernelImprovements

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
* fix: Add missing ggml_metal_cv_free

Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <redacted>
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Signed-off-by: Gabe Goodhart <redacted>
Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <redacted>