ci : target ROCm 7.14 for build and release (#25775)

ci : target ROCm 7.14 for build and release (#25775)

* Switch ROCm from 7.2.1 to 7.14

ROCm 7.14 is the first production release using TheRock build system.
It can be installed using multi-arch deliverables from wheels, debs,
rpms, tarballs or runfiles.

Adjust ROCm targets for Linux and Windows to use this instead.

* ci: switch all other Windows ROCm jobs to ROCm 7.14 wheels

Move the shared windows-setup-rocm composite action from the HIP SDK PRO
Edition installer to the multi-arch ROCm wheels (rocm[libraries,devel]).
The wheel-install logic that previously lived inline in release.yml is now
in the shared action, and both build-cache.yml and release.yml call it.

Also migrate the build-cuda-windows.yml hip job to the same wheel-based
layout (cache path/key, rocm-sdk environment setup, llvm/bin compiler
paths) so it keeps working after the action's contract changed; drop its
now-unused ROCm 7.2.1 rocWMMA download and stale include path.