ggml-virtgpu: make the code thread safe (#19204)

ggml-virtgpu: make the code thread safe (#19204)

* ggml-virtgpu: regenerate_remoting.py: add the ability to deprecate a function

* ggml-virtgpu: deprecate buffer_type is_host remoting

not necessary

* ggml-virtgpu: stop using static vars as cache

The static init isn't thread safe.

* ggml-virtgpu: protect the use of the shared memory to transfer data

* ggml-virtgpu: make the remote calls thread-safe

* ggml-virtgpu: backend: don't continue if couldn't allocate the tensor memory

* ggml-virtgpu: add a cleanup function for consistency

* ggml-virtgpu: backend: don't crash if buft->iface.get_max_size is missing

* fix style and ordering

* Remove the static variable in apir_device_get_count

* ggml-virtgpu: improve the logging

* fix review minor formatting changes